Wednesday, August 27, 2008

this blog should have been posted days after the accident …


You lied to me boo and I hate liars!!! Remember my blog about you? Do I have to post it again?....... You may may lie and you think the consequence won’t be so bad. You even convinced yourself that white lies are okay because you, and no one else will be implicated. But other people are bound to get involved. How can you make light of possible consequences then? You may lie to save face when you’ve commited yourself to something you couldn’t do. You lied to maintain your credibility. The longer you aren’t found out, the more lies you have to tell to keep up the deception. Pretty soon, keeping your reputation at all cost becomes more important than keeping your honor intact…be aware of what happens when everything explode in your face. You can be sure no one’s going to trust you again. Even if you only tell the occasional lie, it doesn’t matter,on one’s going to completely trust what you say ever again. I’m going to say this again boo, a person who’s lost his honor has lost a thing of great value…you just have to reexamine your standards. Are you under great pressure to keep up an image? Are you afraid of disappointing me? Do you feel you are falling short of other people’s expectations? Ask yourself what you deem more important- how the see you or how you see yourself. Remember that no lie ever goes entirely undiscovered. You can’t fool all the people all the time and keeping track of the last fib becomes too much of a task. Do you really need that kind of pressure? Free yourself from the lie boo.

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